What We Miss (and Don’t Miss) After Becoming Moms | Two Moms Too Much Coffee

This week on Two Moms Too Much Coffee, we get brutally honest about the realities of mom life — the things we surprisingly don’t miss from our pre-mom days, and the ones we deeply do.

From sleep regressions that left both our households wide awake at 2 AM, to missing couch-potato Saturdays, spontaneous adventures, and even jeans that used to just… fit — nothing is off-limits.

We also dive into the flip side: no more hangovers, no more fake friendships, and way less awkward small talk thanks to our kids. It’s a real, unfiltered conversation that every mom will relate to.

If you’ve ever said, “I just miss being lazy without guilt” or “I don’t miss those old friendships that faded away,” this episode is for you.

Grab your coffee (and maybe some headphones if your kids are nearby), and join us as we laugh, vent, and validate all the things that come with motherhood.

00:00 – Welcome back & why we had to reschedule

00:45 – The night of zero sleep (mom solidarity)

03:40 – Do babies telepathically plan sleep regressions?

07:15 – What we don’t miss about pre-mom life

08:20 – No more hangovers (thank God)

09:30 – Small talk made easier with kids

11:00 – Real vs. fake friendships after baby

13:50 – Cuddles, love languages, and unexpected touchiness

15:55 – What we do miss most after becoming moms

16:30 – Sleep and couch potato Saturdays

18:15 – Champagne Sundays & thrillers (and why that’s over)

19:30 – Missing spontaneity and freedom

23:15 – Over-touched, over-stimulated, and over it

24:30 – Traveling without kids feels impossible

28:15 – Running late to everything now

29:50 – Losing focus in conversations with kids around

30:55 – Postpartum anxiety, therapy updates, and mental health check-in

37:00 – Unsolicited advice & closing out